Perhaps we are busy micro-managing our needs and wants and whats missing, that we miss the very essence of what we actually have. Its a human flaw across the board.
Seems like my entire life has been punctuated with 'throwing in the towel' and moving on. It almost feels like dropping anchor is a very bad idea for me and that its not written in my life path for it to be so.
BUT moving forward is not a bad thing - after all, that means taking me to a different space with the hope of having refreshing experiences instead of the same old predictable song. So, we need to be adaptable to changes, to better survive.
I am a survivor - although very much scarred, still a survivor. I do not relish huge dreams of ever being blissfully happy, but I know that I will find that balance sometime soon because as messy as my life is, it is getting some order.
Strange - an ordered mess -
So, as I have said many times - we can't keep doing things the same way, expecting a different outcome. Therefore, I am not. I am going to change the way I do things. AND at least, when the dust settles, there might be a surprising end result.
I never believe in a WIN WIN situation, simply because someone always looses, but perhaps if i may, I could skew my thinking to make it about me and less about other people to obtain that WIN WIN. View the end result from a personal perspective, instead of from a whole perspective. That might fix the overall picture.
Yeap. The only way to ever be in a WIN WIN situation is to look at things selfishly. This is what we have been reduced to.
Problem is, is that in me, to be totally selfish, so that I can say I won? Well, keep the eye on the ball - see what's in front, not whats around it - and write a closing squarely on what we are staring at.
That solves the problem, doesn't it?
