If love is blind..........Song by Tiffany

I'm not sure if this song had a prior singer, but the first time I heard it, Tiffany was on the mic.

Nostalgia

For a person who guards my independence, it's strange to have a song which affects me at many levels.

For starters, to me, Love isn't blind - which is why the title is apt in my situation.  If Love is Blind, there will be so many failed relationships that would have been successes.  

If love is blind
I'll find my way with you
Cause I can't see myself
Not in love with you
If love is blind
I'll find my way with you

I have passed on many - many who have loved me and vice-versa - circumstances always forced me to use my head and it always sings Love ISN"T blind.

Are people like me, there are many of us, ever going to stop using our head and for once, make a decision with our heart?  I doubt.

Once you are a head person, you tend to skew that way.  There is no way, we can continue doing the same thing over and over again, and expect a different outcome - it doesn't happen.

The only way people like me can live in the moment for as long as the song plays - that love is blind...BUT THEN - the song title is IF love is blind...which means, Love isn't blind at all.

Sooner or later, whatever we are blind to, comes into our line of vision clearly.

If love is a state of mind, that is able to perpetuate for eternity, there will be less people breaking up, less people in divorce courts, less children growing up in incomplete homes.

It may have taken me a long time, to realise how much I value my independence but now that I have it, it's difficult to let go.

I try, to get blind-sided for a moment, but that's all the slack it can ever get - a moment.

Perhaps, my life took priority because of my responsibilities.  

Perhaps then, it's not my fault for being less blind!