There is such a thing as being in a helpless situation. Such a situation arises when given all the circumstances, nothing much can be done to fix the problem. Keeping the players in the situation as a constant, we find that any change in the other variables is not quite possible - that's helplessness. To say that we shall then CHANGE the players, it would mean, not keeping a constant at all, and having variable components throughout the equation, which translates into having a fresh equation - thus, not finding a solution to the question in the first place.
When that happens in a test paper, for example, it means, we have skipped the question and gone on to the next.
In life, when a situation is hopeless, it's also helpless ; simply because there is no NEXT question we can skip ourselves to. We are stuck.
Of course, even when we are stuck, we believe that there is a solution. BUT if we didn't prepare ourselves well for this huge test in life, then what? Skip this life and hope to be re-born in a better cycle? I believe some people have exercised that preference, ie. take their own lives and hope that they will be re-born in some other life.
I do not have a well thought-out solution for this helpless equation.
Simply because, there is none available.
Bottom line: Bail out Emotionally.
It takes a strong person to do that, because we are all wound-up with emotion all the time, male and female.
That would be the best, life-saving solution for anyone.
Some would ask, how so? since we are still very much alive and in pain.
Well, when we bail out emotionally, we are less involved.
When we are less involved, we feel less, thus, get annoyed, angered, pissed-off, hurt, LESS.
Give that some time, and no one will know the difference between a Ponstan capsule and you.
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