There will always be some people who think they are better than most in all areas of their life. Most times, it's true only in their state of mind.
For such people, the only way to make them stop, is to put them in their rightful place.
Such people are usually the ones who are in the business of 'carrying balls'.
They have the need to think they are being everyone's friend - ever ready to butt in, even when there are no cries for help.
For regular people, this is really annoying because what happened to good ole sincerity - in these people's books, they are sincere, so we, are probably the ones who need a head-check.
These people usually are not performers - they just live off other people's energies hoping that some will brush off them. They do not realise that the road to the top is much shorter if you did the climb yourself.
Whenever we are, it's important that we recognise our abilities and work within those boundaries. It's good to have a goal in our endeavour, but let's make that realistic - i.e. aim for something within our ability - not someone elses -
Don't be patronising, because it conveys itself as being one without our own identity.
And stay out of friendship politics, because, we are not running for public office.
I have been wondering how such people survive. Well, they survive only because some people allow them this space to spread their virus.
Cut out the breeding place and our work environment will be more conducive for the majority of us, who work for credit that is due, and not one that robbed.
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